You now know that I am an Educator and a Consultant, but I am also a REALTOR®!
Now here is the funny part, I am NO Salesman, yet you would be tempted to ask, “Why would you choose to be in a Sales profession?” I chose Real Estate, because I wanted to help people achieve their dreams of Home Ownership and if I have to do that within a Sales-realted Industry, then so be it, but I don’t have to Sell anyone anything. If you look back to a previous post, you will see that I HATE being Sold, so I couldn’t do that to anyone else.
What I bring to the table as a REALTOR® is mostly who I am as a person. I have been married for 28 years to my most precious gift from God, Ray Jones III and we have been blessed with 5 beautiful children and 6 precious grandchildren. Ray IV-25 and his wife, Amber had our 1st 3 grandsons, Zechariah-6, Ray V-4, Colton-3 and our 1st granddaughter, Autumn Rose-1; Kimmy-23 and her husband, Paul have Isaiah-1; Michelle-20 and her husband, Matt have Calli who turned 1 yesterday; and our babies, Rebecca and Rachel turn 16 this month! {Please pray for us, having 2 girls with Learner’s Permits is somewhat challenging at this point in life 8 } Our family is holding at 16 strong!
As a wife, mother, grandmother and friend, I stand firmly behind a Win/Win proposition for all parties at all times. When a conflict arises between my loved ones, I do not choose which one to sacrifice at the expense of the other, I look to how we can work things out with the best interest of all parties in mind. Everyone will be called upon to give a little in their position on the issue, but the ultimate health of the relationships is far more important than winning, just because one feels they are RIGHT. Being right can be a cold and lonely place to be, if you find that you have alienated people in order to get there.
OK, there are some differences when it comes to Real Estate, because I owe my fiduciary duty to the client who has employed me, but I can’t be dishonest to anyone to achieve that end either.
If I am representing the Buyer in a transaction, I encourage them to think like a Seller and consider how they would feel if they were in their shoes. Should the Seller gift the equity in their property to the Buyer just because they ask? I like to establish a good rapport with the Listing Agent and endear my clients to them during our discussions. Based upon what I can find out about the Sellers and their circumstances for Selling, we can determine what would be the best way to structure an offer that helps my Buyers to make an affordable purchase and possibly get Closing Cost help, while still giving a fair price to the Sellers.
Using the comparable sales of the area is usually the best, as it keeps things purely objective. No matter what a Seller may think their property is worth, it ultimately comes down to what an appraiser will say and that is based upon the comparable sales in the area.
Winning a hard-fought battle in the beginning does not assure an ultimate victorious win. Things can come up along the way, where a little latitude may be needed, but if there are hard feelings from the battle, you may be going up against a brick wall that won’t move. Sellers also need to think like Buyers. Would they want to pay more for a house than comparable sales could support?
Educator, Consultant & REALTOR® added to Mother, Grandmother & Friend, make for a tenacious combination of qualities that work together for the GGRREATER good of all. I am a Big Woman with a Big Heart, who treats my clients like extended members of my family!